How do you raise your kids online?
Posted on January 10th, 2011 @ 8:17 am
I’m looking for some advice on parenting, specifically in regards to the Internet.
If you’re not aware, Leann and I have two kiddos. Right now, Josh is six and Jackson is four. Saturday, for the first time, Josh played a math game online at home that he has at school. The game required a username and password, both of which Josh remembered, although they use cards at school. As a geek dad, I was so proud!
The computer I had as a kid
This got me thinking about the different decisions parents face now than they did when I was growing up. In my family, we were fairly early adopters of the home PC, and although I was on BBS‘s back in middle school, my kids have access to the entire Internet almost a decade earlier than I did.
For example, both of our boys have Twitter accounts. Right now, however, it’s just Leann and myself (mostly me) posting funny things they say to each of their accounts. I occasionally have fake conversations with them online, complete with @timjpriebe, @joshuapriebe and @jacksonpriebe. These conversations replicate funny conversations we had in person.
But at what age do I let them start updating their own Twitter accounts? Twitter has no limit of their own, although Facebook limits the age to 13. Should Leann and I let them have a Facebook account when they’re 13?
Both of the boys are aware that I work on computers all day. Jackson doesn’t know what a website is, but Josh is starting to get the idea. So as the children of a web designer (the S in T&S Web Design does, after all, stand for Sons), total avoidance of the online world isn’t really a feasible possibility. What do we let them do, and when do we let them do it?
I’d love to hear from other parents on this, as I feel like I have lots of questions, but none of the answers.
Parents, what have you done that has and hasn’t worked?
Why my wife is awesome
Posted on December 10th, 2010 @ 7:09 am
Halfway through my 30 days of doodling series, my wife posted this on Facebook:
After your doodle of the day is over in 15 days, I do fully expect a long list of why your wife is awesome. Or you could do the list before your doodle days are over.
Since I’m on a visual kick, I decided to make my list out of pictures. And, of course, I would be in major trouble if I didn’t out-do my list of doodles.
So, with no further ado, here are thirty-eight reasons why my wife is awesome, in no particular order:
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- Leann let me build this arcade
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- Leann married me
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- Leann loves Disneyworld
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- Leann made Josh pose for this photo because I wasn’t there
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- Leann thinks Josh crying because he got paint on his arm is funny
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- Leann thinks things like this are cool
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- One Halloween, Leann dressed our kids as Batman (close second to Superman)
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- Leann surprised me with a Magic Mouse as a gift
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- Leann loves our kids so much that she actually wore this thing
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- Leann likes ridiculously overpriced fondue
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- Leann stayed up super-late helping us move into our office next to Jimmy Johns
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- Leann also lets me dress Jackson in Superman stuff
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- Leann let me dress Jackson in Superman stuff from a very young age
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- Leann let us go for a family vacation to the Action Figure Museum
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- Against her better judgement, Leann let me and the kids dress up in these
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- Leann makes really good fresh salsa
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- Leann bought me these awesome shoes on clearance
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- After I bought this Apple shirt for Josh (and Jackson), Leann actually dressed them in it.
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- Leann loves taking the kids to the zoo, even though she secretly hates animals
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- Leann encourages our kids to play on the computer
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- When told to pick something out for me at Pop’s, Leann came back with this
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- Leann thinks things like this are funny
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- Leann participates in my self-photography hobby
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- This time, Leann dressed Josh as Mario and Jackson as Luigi
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- Did I mention Leann gave me this kiddo?
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- Leann has always made our kids take daily baths
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- Leann generally plays nice with my parents
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- Leann threw a Superman-themed “surprise” 30th birthday party for me
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- Photo ops are more important than baby comfort
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- Not only did Leann let me dress Josh up like Mario and myself like Luigi, but she dressed up like the Princess
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- Leann is also at least half repsonsible for Jackson
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- On more than one occasion, Leann has let me dress Josh up like Mario
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- Leann took this awesome picture while I was otherwise occupied, combining two of my favorites
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- Photo ops are more important than safety to Leann
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- Leann is at least half responsible for Josh
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- While ready to give birth (and immediately afterwards), Leann put together a graduation party
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- Leann likes driving arcade games
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- Pre-kids, Leann went to Metropolis, IL for a Superman-themed vacation
Tags: arcade, awesome, batman, geeky, jackson, josh, leann, mario, superman
Playing Machinarium with my five year old
Posted on February 7th, 2010 @ 11:47 pm
Josh with his newly opened robot computer game, Machinarium
This Christmas, one of the gifts I got last minute for Josh, my five year old, was Machinarium, which I’ve blogged about before. It’s a game with fantastic artwork and robots as the main characters.
Naturally, it came as a download. But as smart as Josh is, I was pretty sure software without some physical representation. So while in Dallas for Christmas, I used my dad’s printer that will print on CD’s, and made a decent CD and case for it.
Josh opened the gift Christmas Eve, and he seemed happy enough to get it. Later I found out there was some confusion, and he thought it was his three year old brother Jackson’s game. He was even happier once that was cleared up.
I decided to use the game as a father-son bonding activity. So I told Josh that as long as he behaved, we would play it every Sunday afternoon for an hour or two.
The first Sunday we played, I did feel my patience being tested a bit, as I let him guide me in what to do. I did give him suggestions, but let him decide how to play the game. The game had some hint options built in, which I was fine with using. I did try to get Josh to actually figure things out before we resorted to the hints.
On the sixth Sunday we were playing the game, we beat it. Josh went ahead and gave some feedback on what he thought about the game.
Overall, the experience was fun for both of us. It was nice to bond over a game that you actually had to think to play. I was fairly impressed with how well Josh did. If you’re a father, I would highly recommend playing through a point and click game like Machinarium with your five year old.
